Whose music video was it where the bf was dead and he was trying to stop his gf from dying? early 2000's maybe

i remember there was a part where she spills milk and ge walks through it but leaves no footprint and then she runs out the door and gets into a car accident and then she and her bf are together again blah blah blah, i remember it was a good song though. before hoobastank's reason became popular so it was quite awhile ago